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Thanks for the Email, your little circle cowards, criminals,and social misfits, has been an inspiration to me for the last few months,its too bad that all of you have to hide your identities and slide through blogs like the decaying waste that flows through a sewage pipe, but one day all of that will be behind you, remember courage can't be built, you are born with it, and this group is simply the result of a miscarriage.

I thought i would give Rocky the honor of being the first on the list of phony,and shall i say criminals that made the stupid decision to launch an assault on Realworlds blog, but you are special,you see you were asking for other peoples credentials, when in fact you have none of your own to offer,and just like Rocky, same old MO, you always make emotional decisions based the false assumption that you are justified in your action because of your over inflated ego.

Well my egotistical friend, you are going to get a lesson in your own stupidity. not only was i blasted on blogstream, but two other forums, Rocky's Pad, but another on ez-board. but i kept everything on my blog about the entire situation, but it would seemed that some needed every forum that they can run to, to get that much needed attention, so i just wanted to give everyone the attention that they so richly deserve.

So i will leave you to your ego,and you own self destructive attitude,and you only have one person to blame for that. i look forward to your comment on this page...yeah right...join your team of other hiding friends, and say goodnight..

lotsa love...stupid old man

For the last few months i've been playing with Rocky Jones, Rocko is for all intents and purposes and idiot, however i let Rocky play on my blog for sometime,and then i started receiving spam e-mails from the Rock, now this person knows they have been convicted of at least one crime, so it would not be a good idea to go for two, right Rocko.

I posted my e-mail address so anyone that wanted could send me e-mails, but Rock chose to spam it, well Rocky just a message from a HAYSEED,remember when i told you that you was doing something to assist another criminal when you came to my blog, but you ignored that warning, she is already going to have to do some jail time because of that, but you know what thats like! you see Rocky when you do dumb stuff like that it cost people, and remember i told you this loyal friend wouldn't defend you,was i right? so you may have to clean up the political problems of the nation without her for awhile,and thats too bad.

maybe the Rock didn't understand why i shut my blog down for awhile, it was to add some tools that would track your dumb ass,however you decided to do stupid crap,like the (adolescent) spams, now if you would like to send me a message like someone that isn't a gutless whimp, which everyone already knows you are then we might be able to resolve this whole issue, if not i will post your REAL NAME, REAL ADDRESS AND your and your internet conection, but for now just this.

Rocky's Pad Access to this forum is limited. In order to access or read this forum you must be a member. To become a member click on the "Create a login" link below and follow the simple steps. If you are currently a member please sign in to see the latest postings. Login name Password Create a new login Summary of Group Access Privileges for this forum: Group Privileges Application Procedures Rocky's Pad Post HTML Requires approval by Group Owner lotsa love....HAYSEED

I just spent an entire afternoon reading Rocky's Pad on network 54, if you would like to be entertained for a few hours just go over and read it,of course you will recognzse some of the people who post there from blogstream.
my first encounter with Rocky came on April 8th of this year, and although Rocky maintains no blog here, it is used to assault other people that do post here. when i ask how anything concerned "space ranger" i got no reply only one line insults, and back to rat hole 54.(rat 54 where are you)
Now if you go to that forum and go back to oh lets say late Jan and follow it through, you will know what the concern was. And you will see that what "Mizmace" and I maintained all along was in fact the truth.
There you will see jojo, rocky, shifty,dopey, and sleezy solving all the world problems, apparently they were all smoking some of granny's spinach.

http://www.network54.com/Forum/352755/ Rocky's pad

That was the reason for my last post on responsibility, because a person came to my other blog and spent months with a vicious attack on me, and now i see that same person on other blogs claiming she was a victim, but never accepting the responsibility for her own actions.
she was the one who put herself a position that would cause some sort of trauma, which she now blames on someone else, that drained her emotionaly, and true to form it is always someone else's fault, never hers.
And to be honest, young or old, being female doesn't give you an automatic excuse to be a victim, most of the time if you had avoided what was a volatile situation, and remembered that your right to swing your arm ends where someone else's nose begins, you would not have been put in that predicament in the first place...

Random House Unabridged defines blame as:
1) to place the responsibility for (a fault, error, etc.) on a person. 2) to find fault with, to censure 3) US slang; to blast (used as a humorous imperative or opative. 4) to blame, at fault, censurable 5) act of attributing fault, censure or reproof. 6) responsibility for anything deserving of censure.

Whereas responsibility is defined as
1) The state or fact of being responsible. 2) an instance of being responsible 3) a particular burden or obligation on a person who is responsible. 4) something for which someone is responsible 5) reliability or dependability, esp. in meeting debts or payments 6) on one's own responsibility, on one's own initiative or authority.

Responsibility is mentioned twice in the definition of blame, but never is blame mentioned in the definition of responsibility. But neither the qualification of the one placing the blame or the accuracy of the charge is established. In other words, just because someone is blaming you for something doesn't make it true.

That should tell you something. What else is interesting is how the words censure and fault -- which play such a large part in the definition of blame -- are never mentioned in the definition of responsibility.

But perhaps the most important difference between the two words is blame is focused on directing responsibility for failure - and your ire - onto others. Blame does not require you to meet any consistent standards of behavior other than what you feel is appropriate for the situation. Whereas, responsibility does. And it requires you to consistently meet these established standards of behavior. Blame really isn't about other people, it is about you passing the buck. Responsibility is about what you do to work with other people

So why is blame so appealing?
People who blame others tend to overemphasize themselves and underemphasize the negative effects of their actions. Many of their behaviors are based on self-gratification -- whether overtly or subtly. Many of their actions operate around either gaining something pleasurable and avoiding (or venting) about something unpleasant -- like emotions or repercussions. These people often suffer from low self-esteem. Their actions tend to revolve around either bolstering themselves or deflecting any negative that could threaten that self-esteem.

A good way to understand how blame works is that such people have "cause-and-effect radar" that only works one way. The only things that register are how something affects them and their feelings -- which they use to justify their actions. What isn't picked up is how their behaviors or words affect others -- or how they are coming across to others.

The blaming mindset is a slippery slope. One that is difficult to self-recognize because it is self-reinforcing. In short, you don't know that you are doing it because it seems logical and normal. It isn't until you step outside this frame of reference that you will notice the imbalance in the flow of cause and effect.

Basically if things keep going wrong in your life, if you keep on finding yourself in chaotic situations, if there is always some kind of crisis going on or if things "just keep on happening to you" -- you need to do a radar check.

This often entails asking people for an outside perspective -- and then listening to them. But the old adage of "birds of a feather flock together" also holds true. You need to ask people outside your circle of close friends and family. The reason people are your friends is that you all tend to think alike. You need to get an outside, objective opinion. It is best to ask professional counselors, but stable, successful, mature people also are good sources of information.

Unfortunately, when they do this, many people hear things that they don't want to hear -- that is why they don't normally ask. Odds are, what you are going to be told is NOT what you want to do. It is not going to be comfortable. It is not going to give you benediction for your actions and emotions. This is, however, a critical perspective to have because it shows you how other people think and how they perceive you.

And that is going to determine how people will treat you.

Even if you don't agree with what they are saying, ask yourself "what was the reasoning behind that statement?" Often other people see things that we don't see -- or, more importantly, don't want to see. If you ask 10 people and eight of them say the same thing, then there is obviously something that you are missing

Now while some people will steadfastly maintain that they have considered all possibilities, by definition a blind spot is not only an area you can't see, but one that you don't know you can't see. When eight out of 10 people tell you something is wrong, something is wrong. If you feel an incredible surge of internal resistance about what is being said or toward continuing to ask mature and responsible people for an outside perspective, that too tells you something. (If you don't know any stable and reliable people to ask that should really tell you something).

If you encounter this resistance you must approach the issue from a different angle. The question then becomes: What would I lose if I did allow myself to see what I don't want to see? And that is a Pandora's Box question if there ever was one.

Blame Encourages More Violence and Ignorance
While blame may sooth the victim's savaged ego, it does nothing to lend itself to understanding the dynamics that led to the attack. Most importantly, it fails to show either the victim or others how similar attacks could be avoided in the future